釉里红

男人会爱包法利夫人吗？

认真看原著，你会发现，包法利的老公还是很爱包法利的，假如他不那么爱她，她也不会那么过分——女人的任性是男人惯出来的。看原著的时候，我一直在心里问自己，为什么那个包法利先生那么宠包法利呢？我总以为这么蠢的男人是很少的，他们应该更喜欢顾家的贤惠的善良的不虚荣的女子，后来才知道，其实包法利夫人之所以层出不穷，是因为包法利先生太多——他们也不是很有钱的男人，就是一工薪阶层，但他们希望自己的老婆有点姿色，有点时尚，别看上去太土，最好还有几个男人追着，这样他们才有面子——你看，我老婆，别的男人也喜欢，但被我娶到了。

所以，大凡爱包法利夫人的男人，多数还特别哈着，生怕得罪人家，看人家刷自己卡买这买那，也不敢吭声，如果买不起，还要脸红，觉得委屈了人家。对这样的男人，除了让他去读原著，看看那个被戴了N顶绿帽子的包法利先生一生，没有别的办法——你不必教给他任何对付小包法利夫人的办法，他是自找的。他无法喜欢一个朴素有内涵的女人，他就喜欢打扮得漂亮时髦的女人，倘或他是名人大款帅哥，小包法利夫人倒可能赶着马车带着盘缠啥啥都不要，宣称只要他这个人——可惜他不是，所以，势利而善于算计的小包法利夫人怎么可能便宜了他？你不是喜欢我漂亮时髦吗？那就买单吧。我的包包我的鞋，还有彩妆护肤美容美发……小包法利夫人很清楚——她并不那么爱他，她之所以要他，就是要他身强力壮能买单，假如他连这个都做不到，小包法利夫人怎么肯跟他呢？

呵呵，我以前还替包法利先生们打抱过不平，看他们做牛工赚的臭钱都被小包法利拿去挥霍了，替他们冤，现在我才不呢——包法利先生比包法利夫人更虚荣。这都是愿打愿挨的事儿，花点钱算啥，尤其花钱给自己买绿帽子，那多时髦！您要是不那么包法利夫人，他还要嫌你没魅力没味道土难看给他丢脸！

很喜欢的Adele一首歌曲，MTV也是我喜欢的调调。插入视频了，不知为何显示不了，歌词如下：

There's a fire starting in my heart,
Reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark

Finally, I can see you crystal clear.
Go ahead and sell me out and I'll lay your ship bare.
See how I leave, with every piece of you
Don't underestimate the things that I will do.

There's a fire starting in my heart,
Reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark

The scars of your love, remind me of us.
They keep me thinking that we almost had it all
The scars of your love, they leave me breathless
I can't help feeling...

We could have had it all... (you're gonna wish you, never had met me)...
Rolling in the Deep (Tears are gonna fall, rolling in the deep)
Your had my heart... (you're gonna wish you)... Inside of your hand (Never had met me)
And you played it... (Tears are gonna fall)... To the beat (Rolling in the deep)

Baby I have no story to be told,
But I've heard one of you and I'm gonna make your head burn.
Think of me in the depths of your despair.
Making a home down there, as mine sure won't be shared.

The scars of your love, remind you of us.
They keep me thinking that we almost had it all
The scars of your love, they leave me breathless
I can't help feeling...

We could have had it all... (you're gonna wish you never had met me)... Rolling in the Deep
(Tears are gonna fall, rolling in the deep)
Your had my heart... (you're gonna wish you)... inside of your hand (Never had met me)
And you played it... (Tears are gonna fall)... To the beat (Rolling in the deep)
Could have had it all
Rolling in the deep.
You had my heart inside of your hand,
But you played it with your beating

Throw yourself through ever open door (Whoa)
Count your blessings to find what look for (Whoa-uh)
Turn my sorrow into treasured gold (Whoa)
And pay me back in kind- You reap just what you sow.

(You're gonna wish you... Never had met me)
We could have had it all (Tears are gonna fall... Rolling in the deep)
We could have had it all yeah ( you're gonna wish you... never had met me)
It all. (Tears are gonna fall)
It all
It all (Rolling in the deep)

We could have had it all (you're gonna wish you, never had met me)
Rolling in the deep (Tears are gonna fall rolling in the deep)
You had my heart inside... (you're gonna wish you)... of your hand (Never had met me)
And you played it... (Tears are gonna fall)... to the beat (Rolling in the deep)
We could have had it all ( you're wish you never had met me)
Rolling in the deep (tears are gonna fall, rolling in the deep)
You had my heart... ( you're gonna wish you)... Inside of your hand (Never had met me)

But you played it
You played it.
You played it.
You played it to the beat.